   If human were born to be equal like our gods said, then we should follow the rule and treat everyone equally. In the poem Girl, Jamaica Kincaid created a figure of an omnipotent mother that simultaneously taught her daughter to become a woman that required the standards for the society of the period. The mother talked to her daughter without politeness or love. All the demands were strict and had no way to be talked over. The mother asked her daughter to learn all the trivial matters, teaching her what she was expected to be and acted like an Antiguan woman. The short story has no plots, actions and conversations, only short sentences that contained all the requirements and the demands in the poem, which showed that there was no love and perspective in the family. It is hard to notice the relationships between the two voices, the mother and the daughter. The poem looks like a to-do list, listing all the schedule that the girl need to do. All the requests were asked to fulfill the needs of the father or other membership in their family, while this part showed that women were considered the servants in the society. The daughter did respond twice in the poem but got unnoticed by her mother. Even the mother was a woman, she had no empathy to her daughter, but still commanded her to finish all the housework she had done when she was young. This two events demonstrates the difficulty of mother-daughter relationship and the contradictions of the femininity. Also, life under the patriarchy and the situation of colonialism were all the reasons that explained why the girl was treated as a servant. By using the one-way teaching style to install those ideas to the daughter, Kincaid had not only delivered a thought that the girl from the colony has a no space to express themselves and also conveyed the ridiculousness of the spoon-feed education under the system of colonization.

Compare to the poem, the feminism has gradually been noticed by the people. Even the revolution of feminism has been fought for a long time, the real equality between male and female is still not very balanced in some regions, like Middle East. However, since the revolution of feminism was one of the most important revolution in the world, the value of the revolution was not wasted. It still earns a lot of rights for women. Women in present, own almost every right that men have. The gap between women and men gradually disappear, female now have more opportunities then the past to fight their rights and stand out for themselves. Thanks for those brave women that stood out and protect the rights women should have , in those advance countries, the majority of them, do have the high level equality between male and female. However, the feminism becomes abusive.  

In the modern society, feminism has become the weapon that some women used to make themselves an excuse for not being strong or a reason for being weak so that men can do those complicated stuff for them. Feminism becomes the logo that means women can do whatever they want. Those women raise the flag of feminism, they called themselves as feminist; however, the truth is that they abuse the definition of feminism. The definition of feminism is the advocacy of women's rights on the ground of the equality of the sexes. The most important part of feminism is to raise awareness of treating women equally; the main idea of the feminism is equality. In the past, we held high the flag of feminism to promote the idea of not treating women like a servant, do not think they were the presentation of weakness. But for no reason, many of us use feminism to press men and even women. For example, many of the singers created their songs and wrote the lyrics by themselves, but there are a lots of words like "bitches" were used in the lyrics, and the most astonishing fact is that some of the singers are female. So here comes the problem, why the competency of the feminism is so blur? Is it right that everyone who support feminism can called themselves feminist? 

The main reason why people abuse the definition of feminism is that they don't really know what's the true definition and the real meaning of feminism. Because they don't understand the true of the feminism, there is a lot of misunderstanding to feminism which directly influence those "feminists" to act in the proper way to promote the good of feminism. In Zora Simic's research paper, he claimed that academic feminism is recognized as producing feminist competency, while others suggest that this competency can reach its limit when academic feminists cross over into public space. ('door bitches of club feminism'?: academia and feminist competency, Zora Simic, 2010) Which indicates that since the academic feminism becomes more popular, the competency for the feminist will be limited. In Zora Simic's research paper, he suggest that it is a value that serves to both reinforce and quarantine the influence of academic feminisms. ('door bitches of club feminism' ?: academia and feminist competency, Zora Simic, 2010) 

Feminism is a great idea that helped thousands of women in the past to survive from the public's and men's press, in fact, it has more use not only to save those women who treated not equally but also helped present people to know the truth of equality is not a two opposing sets of ideals between genders. Both men and women should all feel free to be sensitive. Both men and women should feel free to be strong. (Speech from Emma Watson in 2014, September.) The equality of feminism is about being yourselves, and not be restricted by the publics or anyone's way of looking at things. Understanding the true meaning of feminism is the way to make the world equal and better. The misunderstanding of feminism will lead the world to a black hole in which we think we are doing the right thing but in fact we are just raising the wrong idea to people. Therefore, qualifying the competency of feminist will be the most pressing matter of the moment to protect people who is suffering the pressure from the misunderstanding of feminism.

